Cristine87
New member
So, this has been bothering me all day so I decided to ask the girls(guys can jump in here if they want to also) of MJEOL. So, it's like this: I recently got back in touch with an old friend of mine from high school and he really liked me then and he still likes me now. I think he's a really nice guy and any girl who eventually gets with him will be a very lucky girl, but the problem is I don't feel the same way. He's a great guy but I'm just not that in to him. I told him a week ago that I wasn't looking for a relationship, which is true. I just want to be single and date different people, I'm not looking for anything serious. We, of course, got in to this big discussion about relationships and how I shouldn't close myself off, etc., etc. Friday, he called me. I put my foot in my mouth by saying I was off from work on saturday and then he asks me if I wanted to do something. I didn't know how to get out of it so I said we could go have a bite to eat at a Cuban restaurant. Well, I thought it was innocent enough but then he seemed so eager and happy and said little things that had to do with the future like meeting mom, etc. and I felt bad cause without meaning to, I felt like I led him on by letting him take me out. The end of the night was awkward cause I felt like he was expecting a kiss or something. Ugh, what have I done? Why did I let him buy me dinner? HOW DO I LET HIM DOWN GENTLY? HELP!!!!!!!!!